Hi All
Thanks a bunch to all of you for your comments and for your kindly interest to my country. I am touched
@adna_f
I am not here opening a discussion to find out whether EU Membership should be the way to go for Turkey or not. I also do have my personal opinions regarding this issue but here I am just telling you the guys the official policy of Turkey regarding the EU membership, whether it makes sense or not, is another discussion.
If you ask my personal opinion, I am NOT in the favour of becoming EU member but I can not really influence the policies of the Politicians out there. There is a vast amount of people thinking like me in Turkey. There are always pro/contra ideas regarding a policy. There are always advantages/disadvantages when you take a decision. There is never one correct truth.
@ Juliana
Thanks for mentioning a good point. There are actually big differences between the Turks who are born/grown up here and between the Turks who are born/grown up in big cities of Turkey. Actually this is a phenomenon of immigration. Not only the Turkish immigrants had this problem in the history. Also Chinese born USA, Italians born in USA also experienced similar differences between their compatriots living in their home-lands.
Immigrants tend to build-up ghettos, try to protect their own culture/language in the country they have immigrated. They usually keep a frozen state of their homeland's culture/language because they are not anymore able to follow the changes in the language/culture/behaviours in their homeland. This is also what happened to Turks immigrated to Germany approximately 40 years ago.
They are still living the state of Turkey's 1960s in Germany regarding the culture/language/behaviours. Even the second/third generations, because they also learned "how to be a Turk" from their parents in this closed immigration environment. They just refuse to accept changes. (Ofcourse there are exceptions but I am here just talking about the majority of the Turkish immigrants living in Germany)
I would like to give you guys some examples. It might be interesting to see the observations from a Turkey-born Turk perspective.
- I met a Germany-Born Turk here who was speaking Turkish with a village dialect, although he was studying at a German University. (His German was not a village dialect but his Turkish was poor and with a strong village dialect which would be really unacceptable for example, if he would decide to work in Turkey(Business Environment) after his graduation. He can correct it though by the time but it was interesting. It was just because he learnt Turkish from his parents who were coming from a village in Turkey.)
- I sometimes have to switch to German when I try to speak with Germany-Born Turks. This happened to me in many occasions. Usually Germany-Born Turks do not have the enough Turkish vocabulary to express themselves.
- Sad thing about it is that their German is also not that perfect. Most of them tend to speak with Turkish accent. (which I also do, but for me it is quite normal, as I learnt it after the age of 22) They are really stuck between two cultures, they dont really know where they belong to. Most of them can not speak the both languages perfectly.
- In Turkey, Germany-Born Turks are called "Germaners" ("Deutschlander") when they come to Turkey for holidays. They are easy to recognize from their accent and from the strange words they use(sometimes also from their appearance). They are not really "Turks" in the Turkish society.
- In Germany, Germany-Born Turks are "Turks" and they are not really Germans in the German society either.
These are couple of things that I observed regarding the immigrant Turks in Germany with the glasses of a Turkey-Born Turk.
I hope my fellow Germany-Born Turks do not feel offended from my comments. They are actually phrasing of the reality which we can easily observe in our environment in Germany.
Regards,
Lacrima