Surfing Alien | Well Saja,
I'm glad that 'early fruits' are already here - somebody has actually made it, smoothly (or maybe not) with a (little) help from the competent people (VPMK)! I truly hope now that we'll be finally speared from all those heartbreaking concern-flooded posts over a GC destiny after the famous 5 years. To be quite honest, I've already got seek and tired of those long time ago. These forums are awfully overwhelmed with posts from people that are neither lawyers nor able to understand phraseology used in juridical German (I'm not even sure if they can speak German/English properly) and yet they are so willing to act advisory interpreting the law in usually insane (sometimes even ridiculous) way thus contributing the broader mess affecting most of the GC holders. I even read some posts having explained the actual fight (verbal?) with a clerks at AA/AB teaching them the law and how they should do the work they are paid for. Ironically, for most of such GCs staying/working here and dealing with the bureaucracy (which is here usually far better then in their home countries) was not quit 'bed of roses'. Do some GCs have to always insist on their exclusive ownership on stupidity? Yet, their keen desire to get a PR is so burning. Do they really know why and what to do with it? Is it a really win-win situation? Sorry, but I have doubts. Nonetheless, please receive my warmest congratulations. If you actually care at all... :-)
More importantly, I'd like to thank you for outlining some issues of the much higher importance as I feel nobody has tackled them seriously/honestly in these forums so far. In the nutshell, we all know (at least, we should) that behind the scene a tinny little rough and bumpy thing called 'integration' waiting for all of us. Sadly, I've gained strong impression that most of GCs are narrowing it to the phrases that lawmakers wrote in the Immigration law (acceptable language skills, familiarity with the pol. system etc.). And even worse, they are so fine with it!? Is it really all? Why would it be taken for granted? Is it really that simple? On the other hand, people like you prove that if someone has a brain, s/he will get it used eventually, and make things right. Thanks, Saja. I'll be surely repeating some of the questions you've already asked (both us and yourself) in your message, but let me just shape the subject in a bit pragmatic way. So these are questions I'd like to all of you GCs out there ask yourselves (and try to answer, of course): 1. How many friendships (with Germans) you have gained so far? 2. How many people you met here (in general) you're sure you can rely on in the hard times? If quite a few, do you really feel secure and safe? 3. Are you really able to exchange/present ideas (not just information) at you workplace in German? 4. How many German fellow colleagues you hang out frequently with? 5. Have you ever asked your kid(s) how is really going in the school, and how many friends they have gained there? If they're teenagers, are you able to see/estimate the possible hell they might be passing through? Do they know who they are actually, and why not? 6. If you still do not have any kids, have you ever estimated the impact of cultural differences between the legacy you've brought along from your home country and the modern German culture you're kids will so easily (oh, yea) adopt here (they will-be/were born here, right)? Please, don't dare to compare Germany with US because it is simply not. 7. Have you ever been considering buying a house/flat/property here? If yes, why and would you really like to go to the bank to just ask? Think twice! 8. Have you ever found yourself underestimated/underrated at your workplace comparing to the equally skilled German colleagues? If yes, what would you blame on and why? Can you keep dealing with it until you eventually resolve it (ever)? 9. How many of you 'got shorty' due to 'Kurzarbeit'/'Insolvenz' in one of your former companies? Have you already done something about it, and why not? 10. Long-termly, where do you see yourself and your family (if have any) in this society in some years from now? 11. Do you think you 'got soften' due to a self-confidence problem you never had before? 12. Considering your job a beyond-average paid for the country and assuming that you were never earning that much before, what are your savings during the last couple of years, or you were just having a good life? Or maybe you are not satisfied with your income at all because it does not work for you in the long run? Well, this will do, for the time being at least :-) Feel free to add more please, would certainly be nice. 12 (questions) is the nice number, though. I wish we could vote :-) Any ideas for having a trust7-polls?
Regards, Alien |